Make the Law of Attraction work for you | Self Improvement

By ColinJoss
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Don't underestimate the power that can come to you when you embrace the Law of Attraction. Take a look at these various scenarios and see what I mean.

Do people notice you when you walk into a party or even a small gathering at the office? This isn't due to the way you look so don't spend so much time picking our your clothes. It has to do with the positive energy that is around you because others are very attracted to it. They will feel good about themselves when they are in your presence so they are instantly drawn your direction.

You are talking to a person and thinking, it could be interesting to get to know this person better. Out of the blue, without any lead from you, the other person says "What are you doing tomorrow, can we meet"?

Most of us have plenty to take care of each day in our lives. This means we often don't have time to take a vacation even though we really deserve one. Yet you have to look for the various opportunities that may come your way. A project may be delayed so instead of getting upset over that and having negative energy you can turn it around. Use positive energy and think of it as the perfect time for you to get out there and enjoy that vacation you have been thinking about.

You are thinking of an old friend who you have completely lost touch with. You are thinking of all the fun times together and thinking that it is a pity that both of you just seem to have dropped off each other's radar. While sorting through some papers in a seldom used drawer you suddenly chance upon a bit of paper with your friend's number.

The point of all these scenarios is that things don't just happen. Your life will be filled with may great opportunities. So you will have to decide if you are going to act upon them or if you are going to blow them off. If you are implementing the Law of Attraction then you are doing all you can to bring positive elements to your life. As a result you will reap many wonderful rewards. Following the Law of Attraction isn't something that just happens for a person over night though. You have to make sincere choice to live that way every day. You have to work hard until it becomes second nature to you.

Everyone uses the Law of Attraction whether they realize it or not. The difference though is that you can use it in a positive way to control what will come your way. You can also allow it to create negative energy and just complain about the crappy cards life has dealt you over and over again. Remember that you will attract those that are like you. If you aren't positive then you aren't going to appeal to others who are full of positive energy. We look to those that make us feel good about ourselves.

Here are some steps to help you to make the Law of Attraction work for you.

1.Live and let live. Positive, unexpected situations like those listed above don't happen every day. They happen out of the blue, when we least expect them. When they do happen, accept them, absorb them. Let the 'good luck' happen to you. Don't you think you deserve it? Grab the opportunity. Do not be afraid of success. Don't get caught up in the negativity of "Why me? What did I do to deserve this?"

2.Identify a few things that you really want and focus on them. Do not keep changing your goals or you will be going round chasing your tail. Admittedly, our goals do change with the passage of time, with our stage in life, with changing circumstances around us. But do try and focus on a few goals and go out and get them - they will not fall into your lap. Remember, "God only helps those who help themselves".

3. Tangible goals are very important - This allows you to be able to visualize them. That is a huge part of the process with the Law of Attraction that will help you to succeed. Seeing that goal occur in your mind over and over again will help you to stay both focused and motivated.

4. Visualize how you are going to achieve your goals - You also need to have visual pictures in your mind of what it is going to take to reach your set goals. Visualize each step of the process taking place in your mind. You also need to stay focused on the part of the process you are at right now. Once you achieve it, reward yourself and then visualize the importance of the next step in the process.

5. Don't get off the path to reaching that goal. Life is going to throw you some curves that you can't control. Yet it is up to you to keep the flow of positive energy coming your way. It is up to you to always know what your goals are and the road to getting there. Be ready for detours but always realize where that path is eventually leading to.

6. Responsibility - This process is never going to work for you if you are still blaming everyone else for what takes place in your life. Once you sincerely decide to accept full responsibility for what goes on with you there is no stopping you. You also need to be responsible about how what you say and do affects other people.

7.Move forward. Keep one eye on the ultimate goal and continue to strive to reach the next stepping stone towards your goal. Remember that by remaining stationery, without us even knowing it, we are actually falling backwards because the rest of the world around us is constantly moving forward.

8. Get out of the comfort zone. Too many of us have an invisible box around us that is our comfort zone. We don't venture out if it because we don't know what lies out there for us. Even if we don't always like what takes place in our comfort zone it is familiar to us. Yet it is once you are willing to take control and venture out that you can benefit from new opportunities. It won't always be easy but generally nothing worth fighting for ever is.

The Law of Attraction is out there and it is lurking behind every action. You can choose to let the negative energy take control as it is always there without much effort. You can also choose to really move forward and to take control of your future. This means you are going to have to change how you see situations and focus on positive energy forces around you.

Since you can't fight the Law of Attraction why not embrace it? Never be afraid to have dreams and goals that you want to achieve. Work to reach them and you will be happy.

About the Author

Colin Joss is the author of the hit law of attraction ebook Inspired Attraction. To learn how folk just like you - and two stars of The Secret - practice the law of attraction in their lives visit http://www.InspiredAttraction.com

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