The Four Biggest Mistakes Men Make Leaving Women Messages | Dating

By DanTrump
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When you get a woman's number, it feels like an accomplishment itself. If you've got the number, you've got the girl, right? Wrong. Most women delete messages from men daily without any plan to ever call them back. This is often because of the type of voicemail message left. With the amount of men a woman meets weekly, your voicemail message may be your only chance to stand out.

Here are the 4 mistakes almost EVERY man makes when leaving a message for the first time

Mistake #2: Trying too hard to refresh her memory in how she knows you.

It is possible that she might not remember you, so you can give a few clues of who you are. "Hey, it's John from La Parka Shores..." should be all she needs to jog her memory. Don't mention what jacket you had on, or what your conversation was about.

Mistake #2: Leaving a message more than 30 seconds.

Women receive messages all the time from men who gab on and on about what they did today, and who they saw, and what they're doing. This isn't what she wants to hear. Wouldn't you tell her all this when she called you back anyway? Oh that's right, you were concerned she wasn't going to call you back, and this was your one chance. If you were thinking that, she could probably tell, and then be even less likely to call you back. Keep it short.

Mistake #3: Loud/weird noises in the background.

You want your message to be completely clear when she hears your voice on the phone for the first time. If you're at a bar, or on a busy street, or doing dishes, she has to work too hard to hear you, and will not be totally relaxed when she takes your voice in and might even hang up and delete the message without hearing it. Be in a quiet place when you call.

Mistake #4: Asking her to "please" call you back.

In most environments, such as work, the dinner table, and the bus station, saying "please" can get you pretty far in life. In dating, it is the kiss of death. Saying "Please call me back," or "Can you call me back please," is awful because you are implying is doing you a favor by calling you back, that it's in your benefit instead of yours. "We'll talk later," or "You can reach me at ______" is much better.

There is definitely no full proof solution to girls not returning phone calls, but if you avoid these major pitfalls, you can expect your callback rate to increase by at least 50%. There is a ton more to the art of "phone game," but you are now ahead of the vast majority of men calling women back for dates.

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