Song Lyrics and Dating - It All Adds Up to Wisdom | Dating

By ChrisBenjamin
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I was driving around last night, listening to the radio like I always do, when I heard a song by Vertical Horizon that I have heard many times before. However, last night the song truly struck a chord with me. The song is called Everything You Want. The lyrics go, "He is everything you want, He's everything you need He says all the right things at exactly the right time - But he means nothing to you, and you don't know why."

This is powerful stuff. Do you know why? Well you're in luck because I'll tell you - it describes the "Nice Guy Syndrome" PERFECTLY. Most men that cannot connect with women are truly great guys. They are nice, thoughtful, intelligent men who cannot get a date to save their lives. Why? Because they are the proverbial "nice guy".

Let me lay it out for you in one simple sentence. Nice guys do not get the girls because they are too nice, which means the women do not feel attraction for them. When they look at these men they see a friend and nothing more.

The Vertical Horizon song explains the plight of the nice guy in just a few stanzas. The nice guy is everything a girl wants -- he is kind, considerate, attentive, brings her flowers and is genuinely interested in her day. He is everything that most women say they want in a man. But he means nothing to her.

The attractive woman is going to end up dating some muscle-bound no neck jock whose greatest goal in life is to graduate college in the next 10 years and treats her like a shoe. What is she see in him? Attraction.

I don't mean that you should try to treat women like garbage. What I do mean is that you need to learn to create attraction for her like Tarzan does so that you can get a date. You need to spark her attraction and keep it going with your own actions and wiles.

What's the best way to do this? There are several things you can do; however, one of the most effective is using what many people call a cocky funny attitude. To be cocky and funny you tease her, make jokes at her expense, bust on her and keep her completely uncertain of what your next move is going to be. You need to keep her guessing as to whether or not she is having an effect on you.

What most men do not understand is that letting a woman know that you are attracted to her is the kiss of death in the beginning of a relationship. Nice guys - being nice guys - are going to give a woman compliments and let her know how much they are attracted to her. The dumb jock, on the other hand, plays with her and does not let her see how much he is attracted to her. This keeps her coming back for more.

So remember - if you tend to be a nice guy, just sing that Vertical Horizon song to yourself and quit being that man that she will not want. Give her what she really wants by being a little bit of a bad boy and your dating life will turn around. Read more on the relationship between bad boys, nice guys, and the women they both want - click below.

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