Helping Lonely Hearts via e-Mail | Dating

By ChaszeySandhriel
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Plenty of lonely hearts are looking for love Online. The problem is, many are frustrated and disenchanted with the process. People are either meeting the wrong people or worse, they are not meeting anyone at all. Some are turning to specialized Online Dating Coaches, like Chaszey Sandhriel.

Chaszey says: "Most people don't realize that what they truly want in a partner contradicts who they are themselves at the core. They are one thing and desire another." She adds: "The beginning of successful Online dating starts with a profile that is unique because it projects the strength of who you are, because it shows your most authentic Self and because you are honestly communicating who you are really looking for in a partner."

In order to create a successful profile, start with these three tips:

1. A successful screen name When we first create our screen names we forget that the screen name we choose communicates poems, or not, to people who will be looking at our profile. Screen names like "TiredofmyJob," "WhoseYourDaddy," "WorshipMe" will not get you the results that you're looking for, no matter how great your personal profile reads. Pick a screen name where people cannot read between the lines trying to figure out what you're trying to communicate with it.

2. Photos that work "I look at dozens if not hundreds of photos a day and I am amazed at the choices people make when they upload their photos to the Internet. They don't realize that their main photo is leaving a first impression," Chaszey says. Most of your photos, especially your main photo, should not cover your face with sun glasses or a baseball cap. This is not the time trying to impress and communicate to your potential partner that you're a football fan or a baseball fan. Photos that work show your face and your eyes clearly. Include a variety of photos ranging from headshots to full body shots (even if you're overweight or uncomfortable).

3. Your profile Be clear, honest and fair when describing yourself There is no need to deceive anyone by hiding your full figured self from your audience. It is only a matter of time until you have to show up in person, at which time your true self will be in full view. So don't try to hide who you are. Never lie about things such as your age, how much you earn or what you do for a living. How do you expect to find the love of your life when you start off deceiving the whole world around you by your mere profile? Be honest, be authentic, be your Self. You're beautiful and gorgeous and handsome and successful just the way you are.

4. Clearly describe the partner you want to attract Everyone wants a "good woman" or a "great guy" but this doesn't mean that your profile needs to sound like you're looking for a Stepford wife or Prince Charming. Too many adjectives can result in people tuning out about what you're really looking for. Perhaps you may want to try to describe how this person makes you feel or what you as a couple would do together. Write this part as if you're talking to her or him directly.

The Nation's number 1 Online Dating Coach, Chaszey Sandhriel, is available on a case-by-case basis to help clients produce amazing results with their online dating experience. You can visit her at www.YourOnlineDatingCoach.com or call her at 415.419.7952.

About the Author

Before you make public your profile, visit Chaszey's website for additional insights that will help you get outstanding results. Or better yet, work with her directly and let her guide you through this exiting and fun journey.

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