Blow Him a Kiss With Your Eyes | Dating

By SarahLove
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We have all seen the flirty woman blow a kiss at a man to spark his attraction. However - there is a very overlooked secret to body language that sparks attraction and sends out the right kind of message in a much more subtle, but powerful way. The method? Simply - eye contact.

In order to send out the right kind of communication with eye contact, it is essential to hold the person's gaze for longer than they are looking at you. In other words - it's not a stare down, but you want to be the last to look away. It's a very subtle thing, but also very potent.

Try it. The next man who you see that you find attractive, hold his gaze when he looks at you. Imagine yourself blowing a kiss with your eyes. Let him drop the eye contact first. This can be REALLY uncomfortable, even counterintuitive, for some women. But if you want to use your eyes to spark attraction, you need to do it, and do it well.

Since most women cannot hold eye contact, the man you are looking at will notice it right away. For one, it will tell him that you are not afraid, nor are you self-conscious. He will feel that immediate connection to you, and become intrigued by your intent look.

As with anything, though practice makes perfect. Go somewhere public or take a walk down the street. Practice looking every single guy you see right in the eye, until he looks the other way. Keep practicing until you get COMFORTABLE with this - and that may take a while!

Keep in mind, though, you are not trying to be overbearing or creepy with this. You are not trying to make him LESS than you or submit to you. You are trying to get his ATTENTION. So when you finally strike up a conversation with him, DO look away naturally every once in a while.

After the conversation has continued for a while and you have made some good headway with him, be sure to let something else catch your attention briefly. If you can, chat briefly with another person or "see" someone you know and wave. Let your attention be diverted from him. Then - when you come back to him, it is more exciting to him seeing that he may have to work to hold your attention.

Once you have gone on to a first date, or maybe going for a cup of coffee or something, change things around a bit and DON'T look directly at him all that much. Instead, act chummy, joke around and have fun, not acting too serious. This will get him thinking about what he can do to get your attention, giving him more of the "chase" that men love.

These are simple things that women can do to get - and keep - the attraction of a man you are interested in. Keep him guessing a little, keep him working at it, and you will keep him attracted - to YOU!

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